Who Am I to Share This? The Bravery of Showing Up – and How It Attracts Clients & Opportunities

Ever hesitated before putting yourself out there, thinking, Who am I to share this?

You’re not alone – I get it.

It might be hard to believe, but even the people you look to as hecking brilliant have moments of hesitation. They, too, have felt that creeping self-doubt, that fear of judgment, that nagging thought: Am I really ready?

But here’s the truth: Your future clients, collaborators, and audience need to see you. They need to hear your insights, feel your presence, and trust you before they even meet you. And if you don’t show up, they don’t get that chance.

Personal Branding photos of Jo Fitzgerald (left); and Sarah Walsh (right) by Tabitha Arthur Photography.

Why Visibility Matters

Think about it – when you’re looking for someone to work with, to learn from, or to collaborate with, don’t you naturally gravitate toward the people who are already showing up? The ones who are sharing their thoughts, their expertise, and their faces?

By making yourself visible, you're giving people an option. You’re making it easier for them to connect with you, to resonate with your message, and ultimately, to choose you.

Personal Branding photos of Hariata Moriaty & Tamati Moriaty (left); and Andrea Callard (right) by Tabitha Arthur Photography.

But What If I Don't Feel Ready?

Spoiler alert: You probably won’t ever feel 100% ready. And that’s okay.

Bravery isn’t the absence of fear – it’s showing up despite it. It’s hitting publish even when your inner critic whispers, Is this good enough? It’s stepping into opportunities even when imposter syndrome tries to pull you back.

Here’s a Trick That Helps

One way to bridge that gap between hesitation and confidence? Professional photos.

Yes, seriously.

Having high-quality, intentional images of yourself gives you an instant credibility boost. It helps you show up with confidence – even on days when you’re not quite feeling it. Because let’s be real, we all have those dips. But a strong visual presence means you’re still showing up consistently, even when self-doubt sneaks in.

Personal Branding photos of Jess Stuart (left); and Vanessa and Mark Piper (right) by Tabitha Arthur Photography.

What’s One Thing You’ve Been Holding Back From Sharing?

Consider this your nudge. Your audience is waiting, your future clients are searching, and your voice matters.

What’s something you’ve been hesitating to share? A thought, a perspective, an opportunity? Practice a bit of bravery and put it out there.

I’ll go first: I was recently approached to speak at a high-profile event, and wow – the self-doubt crept in. What’s my place of expertise? But here’s what I’ve learned: Every time I lean into these moments, every time I allow myself to wrestle with the uncertainty, I find clarity. So here I am, sharing bravely too.

Your turn.